My Grandkids Are So Far Away

ASK LILY

girl's left hand wrap around toddler while reading book during golden hour
girl's left hand wrap around toddler while reading book during golden hour

"Lily, what are some fun and creative ways to stay active and engaged with my grandkids despite the distance?"

Dear Long-Distance Grandparent Extraordinaire,

Oh, my dear, I feel the warmth of your love for your grandkids all the way from here! Staying connected with your little treasures from afar can be a challenge, but I have a few suggestions that'll have you creating magical memories together, even with miles between you.

Firstly, embrace the wonders of technology. Video calls are the next best thing to being there in person. Schedule regular virtual catch-ups with your grandkids, so you can see their faces light up as they share their latest adventures. You could even read them a bedtime story, like a digital version of the classic Aussie tale, "Possum Magic."

Next, consider starting a shared hobby or project together. You could both take up painting and share your masterpieces with each other or embark on a delightful journey through your family's ancestry, uncovering tales of bushrangers and pioneers along the way.

Pen pals, darling! Yes, the lost art of letter writing is making a comeback. Encourage your grandkids to exchange handwritten letters with you. It's a marvellous way to foster their creativity and create keepsakes you'll treasure for years to come. Plus, who doesn't adore finding a heartwarming letter amongst the bills in the mailbox?

For a touch of whimsy, send your grandkids on a virtual scavenger hunt. Create a list of items or challenges for them to complete, and have them send you pictures or videos of their discoveries. You could even participate by completing the same challenges yourself and sharing your results with them.

Lastly, plan visits and trips together when circumstances allow. Whether it's a leisurely stay at your home or a grand adventure to the Pinnacles, creating shared memories is the ultimate way to stay connected with your beloved grandkids.

Remember, my dear, love knows no distance. With a little creativity and a lot of heart, you'll be as close to your grandkids as a kangaroo with her joey snuggled in her pouch.

Sending love and virtual hugs,

Lily Wren